Forget common man or woman. People in high places in society cheat on their spouses. It may be an occasional thing, or a lifelong addiction.
Here are some perspectives if you
are either a victim or a perpetrator of an affair.
1. Stop justifying it. "My
spouse is frigid, SharekAlomre.com I must get
it somewhere" is a poor reason. Trying to rent love or sex elsewhere other
than in marriage is often a loser's first step.
2. Do not be in denial.
3. Communicate. If you intend to
turn off your affair, talk it over with your spouse.
4. Remember that children do suffer
when a parent flings and looks for other pastures.
5. Divorce led by affairs is often
a messy fight.
6. Very few of us can carry split
personalities Arabiandate of an accomplished professional, and a poor
parent or spouse. Most of us will let one side bleed into the other, resulting
in a miserable life.
7. Financial burden is awesome.
Remember the millionaire from NY who played around and lost everything between
lawsuits and palimony suits. He is just one recent example of how an extra
marital affair can lead to unintended consequences - mistress who claims
monetary rights, children who need to be funded through college, relatives who
will often misunderstand and create problems, tax authorities (yes, IRS) because
a person who cheats on his spouse will cheat on his expenses. Remember the
recent silicon valley case where the CEO who earned millions cheated on his
expenses on RussianBrides.com to go around with his mistress?
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